Are there significant differences between boy dogs vs. girl dogs? Aside from the physical traits, are there advantages to owning one rather than the other?
Our own preference has always been boys. But that decision was made back in the day when one of the criteria for being a responsible dog owner was getting your dog neutered young. We decided on boys because that was considered minor surgery, so we thought it was safer.
Now that the value of pediatric neuters is less clear-cut, the choice might be different.
Personality plus
If the physical differences aren’t a factor, what are the personality traits that characterize boy dogs vs. girl dogs?
There actually hasn’t been a lot of research on gender differentials in dogs. The vast majority of opinions are based on anecdote and experience, but there is substantial agreement on some general personality differences between boy dogs and girl dogs.
Boy dogs are reputed to be more affectionate and slower to train. The slow-learner tag may be because boy dogs generally mature more slowly than girls. And, it’s universally recognized that adolescent boys may have some issues with focus. Whatever their species.
Girl dogs are noted to be more independent and more apt to be problem solvers. In our experience, that’s not always true. Golly, Fran’s Brussels Griffon girl (and the inspiration for our shop), solution for every problem was to stare adorably at Fran until she got what she wanted. On second thought, that’s pretty admirably intelligent.
In actuality, how willing most dogs are to learn depends on the desirability of the treats you’re offering. Doesn’t matter what the dog’s vital statistics are, as long as the cookies keep coming.
Choose the dog
Over the years, as trainers, retailers, club members, and competitors in dog sports, we’ve encountered hundreds of dogs of both sexes. What’s absolutely true is that dogs, just like people, are individuals with their own personalities, strengths, and quirks. If there’s a dog or puppy that you connect with instantly, that’s the right dog for you. Regardless of gender or any other physical characteristic.
The anecdotal proof of that is Fran’s Tango. When Golly died, Fran took her time grieving, then decided to get a red, smooth-coated girl. Sufficiently different to not draw direct comparisons. Then she met Tango and was gone. Her smooth, red girl was actually a black, rough boy. But the connection was not to be denied.
Trust the experts
When you’re looking to add a dog to your family, ask the people who know the dog best whether it would fit your lifestyle. Whether you’re getting a dog from a breeder, rescue, or shelter, the people who know the dog best are your go-to experts.
If you’re looking for a couch cuddler, hiking buddy, social butterfly, or performance sport partner, it’s personality that matters. The physical characteristics don’t matter as much. Keeping an open mind will ensure that your heart will be open to the best match for you.
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